Family, Friends and Other Strangers

Upon first meeting someone with the potential to grow into a
meaningful relationship, we often spend the initial time together
exchanging selective personal histories. As the relationship
develops, we add tidbits of information to round out our initial
impressions. From this data we then profess to know this person. In
the early days of the meeting we set the patterns of interaction.

Unless this person does something outrageous to shake the image
that we hold, forever after we are likely to relate with this
individual from habit. One of the traits of a "comfortable"
relationship is the predictability of reactions.

Jane meets John. She tells him who she is, colored by what she
thinks he wants her to be. If she was untruthful or distorted the
facts, she may be bound to maintain that facade lest John not like
the "real" her. John may be willing to accept her true self, but if
it is different from that first presented, he will feel deceived
and be wary of trust. Of course, the reverse of the situation is
equally as likely. When both parties engage in a bit of personal
hype, the challenge is compounded.

When meeting someone special for the first time, naturally you want
to make a good impression. Carefully avoid painting yourself in a
manner that is uncomfortable to you. This picture just may be
setting the boundaries within which you must live.

This same dynamic applies to a job interview. When you submit a
resume or are face to face with a Human Resources counselor you are
pegged as a certain type of employee. If you have pictured yourself
with interests and abilities that are not natural traits, you may
get the job and thereafter work at a position that does not suit
you and which you do not enjoy.

On the other hand, submitting a slightly exaggerated picture of a
trait upon which you are working to enhance, that image may be the
prod to keep you on track in sustaining that desirable improvement.

So what can be done if you find yourself in an unsustainable box?
the usual result in an intimate relationship is a divorce. It is
sometimes easier to part company than to admit the facade.

In a business setting, the upshot could be a firing or a voluntary
change of jobs.

There is another alternative. Numerology can clear the air and give
you a fresh start. In the case of a marriage, a full evaluation of
the numbers can show the strengths and weaknesses of each party. A
good numerologist can tactfully suggest to the boxed in person(s)
that the numbers suggest a change in emphasis. The true picture can
than be disclosed and the false baggage be discarded. The change
can be presented as new insight that gives the person freedom to
make the necessary changes. Under the guidance of the numerologist,
the other party can be advised of the new direction for his or her
partner without engendering distrust.

In the work situation, the numerologist can sometimes work with the
employer to suggest a more suitable placement. At other times, your
happiness may depend upon seeking a different job.

Although the services of a professional numerologist may be helpful
when third party input is desirable, You may find adequate help by
becoming your own numerologist. One possibility is to take a course
to learn the basics. (see the ad above for my on-line class.)
Knowing numerology will help you to understand yourself better and
to know the best approach to your partner. If you explore the
numbers together, you may be surprised at the new depth in your
relationship.

© 2006 Daniel R. Hardt

Life Path Numerology Center
Life Path Business Services
Web site http://www.lifepathnum.com 
mailto:dhardt@lifepathnum.com
"Bringing Numerology to Business"

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