Your Marriage by the Numbers

Your wedding date sets the cycles and nature of your relationship in your marriage. To determine which of the following entries pertains to you , do a very simple calculation. Simply add together all the digits in your wedding date and keep adding the totals until you get a single digit or a master number (11, 22, 33, or 44)

Please understand that the numbers show the natural inclination. It is not fate. Through a conscious effort, negative effects can be softened or turned to advantage. The numbers show the default position.

If your total is 1

This is a marriage of equals. Each party will maintain a separate identity and a degree of independence within the marriage. Practical concerns will often override the emotional attachment. It is important that each party have his or her own area of accomplishment. Confrontation and competitiveness may mark the race to outdo the other. The wife in a 1 marriage is more likely to retain her name or create a hyphenated name.

If your total is 2

The parties in a 2 marriage will be sensitive to the feelings of each other. Differences will either be negotiated or kept quiet to fester. The 2 requires a good deal of tender physical contact. Romance is a high priority. Tradition will likely be highly valued. A 2 marriage is often chosen by mutually dependent people. Both parties could take the words and actions of the partner too personally. There is a potential for a lot of buried hurt. The home is likely to be cluttered because it is hard for a 2 marriage to let go of anything.

If your total is 3

Communication is the hallmark of a 3 marriage. The sparkling wit, if unbridled could become sarcastic or cynical. In the 3 marriage no topic is off limits. Lively discussions of fringe religious ideas or offbeat philosophical arguments bring delight to both parties. To keep the discussion going the parties may start arguing the opposite position from their opening premise. Fun activities keep this marriage fresh. What? Me worry? - not with a 3.

If your total is 4

Above all the stability of this marriage depends upon a solid financial base. Money worries will kill the love. The parties in a 4 marriage will not likely be demonstrative of their affection. This marriage is a practical union. Good judgment and hard work show the love. From the outside, this marriage may look like a union of convenience. The deep feelings do not need to be advertised. This can be a very physical relationship.

If your total is 5

There is a degree of chaos in  a 5 marriage. It demands a constant input of exciting action. Even at its most stable point, a restlessness is roiling just below the surface. The parties may seek out unusual place and times for their love making. Travel keeps this marriage together. This is not a comfortable marriage for anyone who seeks contentment or who dreams of traditional family life. This is not a marriage energy for someone who seeks a caretaker or desires to be one.

If your total is 6

Love is in full bloom. A 6 marriage will contain a nice balance of love and commitment, fun and responsibility. Home and family are important in this marriage. The parties come together in a bond of love that is easily expressed in both words and actions. There is no sense of neediness, but each would feel incomplete without the other. This marriage revolves around the home, so the comfort and good taste of the decor assume importance.

If your total is 7

The bond between the partners is at a deep psychic level. Communication will often be nonverbal. Each of the partners will keep a private inner place that remains unshared. Emotions get buried. Discussions of deep feelings will likely be uncomfortable. A strong spiritual emphasis provides stability to the marriage. That emphasis may or may not include church attendance. This marriage is a walk of faith. Time alone is desirable for the inner development of both parties.

If your total is 8

Money is always an issue in an 8 marriage. The parties may be motivated to become wealthy or they may struggle to meet the needs. Image is important to maintaining the relationship. The home, the car and the wardrobe must be of good quality. Guilt issues about money must be resolved. It is appropriate for the 8 marriage to seek the very best that life has to offer. An 8 marriage is not for the faint of heart. The demands are heavy, but the rewards are great. Too overt a display of emotions may be considered a weakness.

If your total is 9

You will be partners in changing the world. a 9 marriage will sacrifice personal needs for the benefit of a broader issue. Love making can be passionate, but often the spouse is taken for granted in favor of the cause.  Generous giving brings satisfaction as long as the parties both support it. The home will likely become a community gathering place. Emotions can be intense and quickly changed.

If your total is 11

An 11 is the higher vibration of the 2 (see above.) In addition, the 11 is strongly psychic and connected to the higher realm. The vibrations in an 11 marriage are at a  higher rate than the 2. Because of the double 1 there is more dependence upon logic than with the 2. The 2 marriage may have a sense of mission. The partners will work together to bring enlightenment to society.

If your total is 22

Grand dreams with a plan for fulfillment keep these partners moving forward. The 22 is the higher vibration of the 4 (see above.) If the dream is not mutual, the parties may end up hopelessly at odds. The demands of the dream are so great that foot dragging by either party can cause frustration within the marriage. Unfortunately, the grand project often is not known or expected until late in the marriage.

If your total is 33

Ideas and communication are honed to a higher plane from the mundane 6 level of this energy. This marriage is on display to the world as the example of what marriage should be. Problems in the marriage are often hidden from view. Most difficulties can be overcome. Fun and laughter are the fuel for the relationship. Home entertaining is a memorable occasion for hosts and guests alike.

If your total is 44

It is not yet fully determined how the 44 will form as a master level energy. It is just at the threshold of filling to master level status. A 44 marriage would contain powerful forces that could be used for great good or could be destructive. Until we have greater clarity, follow the 8 marriage.

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